Bismillah.
This morning, while having my breakfast suddenly bumped with some videos that I think good for us as a Muslim to practice it. The steps towards a barakah " Baitul Muslim " by Sheikh Hussain Yee.
This is the most basic knowledge for us. As we know the basic knowledge is the most important things to build the strong foundation of something.
What makes the building strong and stable enough to withstand any challenges ? Because of the strong base . Only building that has the strong base will be able to support the weight of the top parts of the structure
Step 1 : Know the purpose of marriage
Everything that Allah created, there is the reasons and purposes behind it. And Allah had mentioned in the Quran that He created human with partner. So that they can get married and have a better life for their happiness in this world. The main purpose of marriage is to find the inner peace into the man and women, the feeling of needs towards each other. Marriage could help us to lower our gaze, makes us more responsible and protect the Deen in ourselves. Knowing when is the right time for us to get married.
Step 2 : Finding Mr/Mrs right
In this world, we need family. How to find the life, partner ? We must be very careful to find our partner. Islam guides us to look at four things. ( beauty, family background, wealth ) these three factors are not the main things to be focus. Because it will not last long. But the factors that Islam guide us is to look at his/her Deen. This factor can make the happiness and peace of marriage with Allah's bless in it.
Step 3 : Do's and don'ts in engagement
The prophet allowed for a man to make an agreement with a woman to engage. Engagement is like a booking to make sure that no others party will come in between because it is not allowed. How long should an engagement be carry on ? Islam does not teach us to delay something good. If a person is stable enough and prepared for it, it should be carry on without wasting any time.When man and woman agree to get married with the approval of both families, that is what we called as an engagement. During this period, we must be extra careful for not doing something that Allah had prohibited. All the dont's between non-mahram is still there in this period. Taqwa is the most important things in this part.
Step 4 : Ta'aruf time
What should we ask our future partner ? It is the right for both to get know each other and discuss matters. First, we have the right either his/her is a practicing Muslim or not. Have you been praying full time ? Alone or in mosque ? How about your da'wah ? How about your family ? This is important to make sure our partner to not involved on bad things and more.
Step 5 : Big day, Nikah
Last but not least. keep on praying so that Allah give us life partner that could make us closer to Him and able to go through in this journey of life together with His bless.
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